Want to know the biggest secret about your authentic appeal? It’s determined by you.
That’s right. When you find yourself attractive, luscious, gorgeous and appealing, then others will, too.
With that, here are six simple ways for you to connect to your natural, sensual, sexy self. In doing so, you’re guaranteed to feel more attractive in your own skin, making you naturally irresistible to those around you.
1. Get dressed up — for yourself!
Let’s be honest: many of us dress up for other people. We want to make an impression! But I encourage you to get dressed up solely for yourself.
Wear whatever makes you feel fabulous, and do it often. Feel good in your clothes, your style, and your body. This is the secret to really looking good to others.
2. Eat a decadent meal slowly and enjoy it.
Food is a sensual experience — it’s meant to be enjoyed. By taking in the smells, flavours, colours and textures of your food, the experience can become erotic.
Being present to the experience of a good meal awakens your senses to the fullness of life, and you better believe, this makes life feel incredibly sexy.
3. Go on a stroll (just because).
Take a walk, not to get somewhere, but to feel the movement of your body.
There is a natural grace and sensuality that exists when we become aware of what it feels like to be in a body. Through enjoyable movement, you will feel this grace moving through you. And this is highly attractive to others.
4. Seduce yourself by creating a romantic mood.
Many of us believe that the purpose of a mood is to share it with another person. Of course, this is really nice. But have you ever created a mood just for you? It can be just as good!
Do whatever feels romantic, sensual, or relaxing, just for you. Light candles, put on soft music, take a bath, or slowly eat a bowl of ice cream. Allow yourself to be turned on by you! Doing so turns you on to life, which is hot to everyone around you.
Dancing helps you feel more comfortable in your body. Not to mention it’s so fun!
Move without feeling self-conscious. It’s great practice to be more comfortable in your own skin.
6. Love your body.
Your body is unique to you, and it’s a beautiful thing. It’s the only body you’ve got! You have to love your body if you want others to love it too.
So how do you do this? You start by showering yourself — your skin, your arms, your legs, your shoulders, any part — with love, kindness, acceptance and affection.
By connecting to this energy within yourself, you’ll feel it reflected back at you from all around. So go out there and make it happen! I dare you to kick the heat up a notch.
Please leave a comment below telling us one way you’re going to connect with your sensual self this week. I look forward to hearing from you!